How to Plan a Couples Trip That Won’t End in a Fight (Or a Breakup)
Hi Friends!
Practical tips for couple’s Trips:
When planning a trip with your significant other, ensuring you're both on the same page is essential. Collaborative travel planning can be a lot of fun, and it's a great way to ensure that you're both getting what you want out of your trip.
Start by getting brutally honest about your travel styles. One of you wants a five-star spa, the other wants to climb a volcano at 6 a.m.? Great. Now you know what you’re working with.
One of the biggest concerns when traveling as a couple is money. You’re not broke—you’re strategic. Set a budget that doesn’t suck the joy out of everything. Instead of worrying about the cost, create a dedicated travel fund. Put aside money each month! Before you know it, you'll have enough to plan your dream vacation.
When it comes to accommodations, there are plenty of options out there that won't break the bank. Instead of booking a generic hotel room, look for boutique hotels, charming bed and breakfasts, or vacation rentals. You'll be surprised at what you can find with little research. Plus, staying in a unique and stylish accommodation can add more romance to your trip.
Deals and discounts are also a great way to save money on travel. Sign up for loyalty programs, watch for special promotions, and don't be afraid to negotiate – you never know what kind of deal you can score. And if you're flexible with your travel dates, you can often find great deals on flights and accommodations. Also? The best deals go to people who check prices like it’s their toxic ex’s Instagram. Be obsessive. It pays off.
Our Favorite Couple’s Trips:
On our anniversary, my then-boyfriend, now-fiance Jon, surprised me at my office a few years ago with a bouquet of roses and some seriously thoughtful gifts. I was completely caught off guard but in the best possible way! He had called up my old boss and arranged for us to have a spontaneous long weekend at The Wentworth in New Hampshire. Can you believe it?
Now, let me tell you about The Wentworth. It's a historic inn nestled in the heart of the White Mountains, and it's been welcoming guests for over 150 years. Everywhere you look, there's something beautiful - from the charming gardens to the cozy fireplaces to the elegant dining room. It's the perfect place for a romantic escape.
But what really made our trip unforgettable were all the thoughtful details that Jon had planned. Every moment was filled with love and adventure! Jon knows me well, and he tailored our trip to my preferences. From the moment we arrived, I felt like a queen!
So, if you are planning a surprise getaway, here are some tips that can help you make it unforgettable.
1. Know your partner's preferences: The first and foremost thing you need to do is to know your partner's preferences. If your partner loves the beach, then plan a beach getaway, or if they are fond of mountains, then choose a destination that caters to their preferences. That way, they'll feel like you really put some thought into the trip. For example, Jon knew I loved the mountains, so he chose The Wentworth for our anniversary trip. It was perfect!
2. Surprise them: Surprises are the key to making your partner feel special. There are many ways to surprise your partner - from leaving love notes around the house to arranging a surprise dinner with their favorite foods. Get creative and have fun with it like when Jon surprised me at the office with a bouquet of roses and thoughtful gifts. It was such a special moment!
3. Plan some special activities: Whether it's a hot air balloon ride or a sunset cruise, make sure you plan some special activities you know your partner will love. These are the moments that will really make your trip unforgettable! Jon and I went on a beautiful hike in the White Mountains, one of my life's most memorable experiences.
4. Focus on the thoughtful details: The little things show your partner how much you care. Whether it's a surprise bouquet of roses or a romantic dinner for two, the thoughtful details can make your trip unforgettable. For example, Jon surprised me with a bottle of my favorite wine in our room. It was such a sweet gesture, making me feel so special. It's all about love, adventure, and paying attention to the little details that make your partner feel special. Follow these tips, and you'll be on your way to planning the perfect surprise getaway for your special someone.
TL;DR: How to Travel Without Breaking Up
Align on expectations, budget, and vibes before you book anything
Don’t try to pack your entire itinerary with activities. Leave room for actual rest!
Say no to hangry fights: always bring snacks
Be thoughtful like Jon (yes, that’s the standard now)
It’s not about being perfect, it’s about having fun and feeling close again
If your trip doesn’t include laughter, inside jokes, and a cute memory for the scrapbook (or at least a good Instagram caption), what was it even for?
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Remember to take a moment to savor the little things. It could be the taste of a freshly made croissant in Paris, the sound of the waves crashing on a secluded beach, or the feeling of awe as you stand in front of an iconic landmark. These moments make travel unique, and we hope you embrace them fully.
And remember, the best part of travel isn't just the destination. It's the people you meet along the way. Whether it's the local vendor who helps you find the perfect souvenir or the fellow traveler who becomes a lifelong friend, the connections you make on your journey make it truly unforgettable.
Have a safe trip!
